Before your parent deployed, you may have done a lot together like playing sports, being in a club, or going to an amusement park. But now it may seem difficult for him to do those activities with you. Although you may be disappointed that it wasn't like it was before, you can both discover new stuff you like to do together. Don't be afraid to tell him ideas you have because he may not have thought of them himself. It's a chance for both of you to be creative about what you do together.